Anonymous asked: Hey it's female anon again. I guess our definition of flirting is different was all. I wouldn't even consider that close to flirting if you're just talking to someone even if they are an acknowledged good looking individual. More questions...I guess are you any nervous about moving in with your boyfriend? You're probably pretty excited for it. I've known mine for almost a year but neither of us is ready for the move-in yet. Then again we aren't in an LDR.

I’m not nervous, I’m more…hesitant. 
I realised a bit too late that moving in with strict parents (even though they aren’t mine) might not be the best idea considering my substance abuse, bizarre sleep schedule, neurotic organization habits, and aversion to loud noises and sunlight and religion. 
but I will find a crafty way to deal with things, as always. 

I mean, fuck.

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Anonymous asked: As a Giants fan, how can you be in a relationship with a Dodgers fan? Isn't that just moral suicide? Also how well does LDR work anyway? Don't you ever start worrying the other will cheat and isn't the distance hard?

the sports rivalry and the distance don’t case problems for exactly the same reason: we like each other too much to care. I abhor the Dodgers, but he was a good sport during the World Series and watched the Giants for me. we respect each other. and we trust each other enough not to cheat. we’ve made it work for four months, so we’ve done something right.

that said, I’m moving in with him in less than two weeks, so the distance won’t be a problem anymore. 

four months seems like an awfully long time to wait to tell your significant other something like that.
I love him to death, don’t get me wrong.
but god dammit, my anxiety would be through the roof if it weren’t for weed.  

fuck. I’m so glad today is almost over.

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despite the car troubles and such, it’s been an amazing 9 days. seeing the Lakers-Kings game, shopping, going for walks, making meals together, cuddling and kissing, watching Netflix, having long talks…all the stuff we couldn’t do for the first 3.5 months of our relationship. I’ve cherished every minute with him.
another 27 days apart and he’ll be back to get me. then we won’t be a long-distance couple anymore. we’ll start the next chapter in our lives…together. it’ll be the official beginning of our future together. 
I love this man more than I’ve ever loved anyone or anything. ever. I adore him, and there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for him. 

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my boyfriend’s mom definitely likes me. his dad has said all of 3 sentences to me since I got here, but he seems to as well.
oh, and my man is even more amazing in person. if I died kissing him, I’d die a happy bitch indeed.

meeting my boyfriend’s family for the first time.
ohhhh my god. 

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I can’t fucking wait.

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